I initially approached this question from an assumption that it was *possible* for me to not be "enough" somehow, but after some consideration I'm realizing this is not a correct frame. I am always enough. There are two core emotions in life: [[Core Emotions (Love and Fear)|love and fear]]. Often we find ourselves believing that love is conditioned on what we do, not who we are. This is a wrong view - love doesn't work that way. Real love is unconditional. Note that being part of a team/community/group/etc has conditions! In order to successfully work together towards a stated goal, people need to have healthy boundaries and expectations for each other. Love is not the same as being part of a team! From Rumi: > Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. We are all like antennas that are attuned to send and receive unconditional love in our own special way. In that light, for me *when I start to measure "enoughness", that's a signal to me that I'm feeling shame and/or trying to bend my "love antenna" (or the antenna of others) into a different shape*. It's a signal that I need a reframe!